From a ually liberated point of view, should I be feeling embared about not ending up as the guy's girl?

is a quick, fun act. A lot of guys want to enjoy this act without the hles of relationship they might not be ready for. The reason the women are willing to "put out" is because they want to do the same thing. Besides " 'oh, sure, why not f*ck a good-looking guy just for fun? nothing wrong with that -- it's not like you're gonna marry him?' " Would that not imply that they also do not want to purse them as their boyfriend? Its all in the name of fun and having a good time.