Remarrying and still keeping my ex-husbands last name?

well when you first get married normally you have the option to keep your middle name or use your maiden name as your middle name. Maybe in your case you can keep your "1st marriage last name" as yoru middle name and rule everything else out. I do understand, I would want to do the same thing for my kids too. When you go get your marriage license and all check on that and see what they tell you.